” Why do I love you? Because you are and always have been my dream.”
Anonymous
If the venue you choose is an outside location, here are a few questions to ask to avoid any last minute surprises.
- Is the location accessible for all my guests? Can you accommodate my guests with special needs?
- What transportation is available and what is the cost?
- Do I need any permits?
- What if it rains?
- Are children allowed?
- Where are the restrooms?
- Are there any restrictions on alcohol being served?
- Is there a sound system for music?
- Are there any restrictions we need to know about?
” When I saw you, I was afraid to meet you… When I met you, I was afraid to kiss you… When I kissed you, I was afraid to love you… Now that I love you, I’m afraid to lose you.”
Unknown
Well a good place to start is with your partner. Do you share the same ideas about your wedding day? What is important to each one of you? Make sure you are both on the same page to avoid disagreements later.
Here are a few things that should be discussed:
- Friend’s and Family - Who will you invite? What roles will they play?
- Religion and Spirituality - Where does it fit in your lives? How should it be included in your ceremony?
- Location - Where will you hold your ceremony? What about the reception?
- Entertainment - Do you prefer a live band or a DJ?
- Food and Beverage - Will you serve lunch/dinner? Will you have an open bar for your guests?
- Expenses - Who pays for what? How much can you afford?
- Photography - Your photographs provide memories for a lifetime. What importance do they hold for you?
Just remember to keep things fun! You want to look back and remember the romance of the day and not how much you stressed planning it!